Whether it’s a simple wedding on the beach in Evanston or an elaborate affair at the Intercontinental downtown, summer is the season for beautiful ceremonies, both outdoors and in. Over the past dozen years, I’ve traveled from Joliet to Gurnee (as well as Michigan and Indiana) to assist with wonderful weddings, and my busiest days are ahead. Since every ceremony I’m part of is different, something new is always happening — and my brain cells get to grow new synapses with every one.

These days, couples often want to include their dog(s) as part of the wedding. The fourleggeds usually act as symbolic ring bearers, walking in with an additional bridal party member and either staying for the reception or getting chauffeured home after the actual ceremony. It’s a treat to have them there — it lends an air of sweetness and fun that guests always appreciate.

A couple of years ago, I had the unique honor of working with Payton, a border collie. This older and very intelligent dog was sitting with a family friend in the back row on the aisle — and he was much more than a symbolic ring bearer. He was the star of the show! When I turned to the best man for the rings, he said: “Payton, come!”, and whistled. Payton ran right up the aisle to the best man’s feet, carrying the rings in a little pouch on his collar. Excellent! I told them I would love Payton to be at all my weddings!